Culture Map, Houston Press, Houston Chronicle, The Examiner, Channel 2, & 20/20 covered my event with HSS TONIGHT!! Not tryin to brag, just HUMBLED by the goodness of GOD. Wow. #moneyVSthemission
Mark the date!
20/20 will air their story on Valentines Day 2013 and Channel 2 will air their story on Oct 17th !!
It’s the season to find someone special and fall in love!
Sign up for FREE to be in my database and only pay if I find you a match or you can hire me directly if you are not willing to leave your love life to chance and want to take control over your dating life and can hire me now if you desire.
I specialize in women over 35 however I match anyone.
This city is HUGE and most people live and work in the their certain areas of town and I encourage you to register because the man or woman of your dreams may live somewhere you wouldnt normally venture into and so you could be MISSING OUT on the ONE!
Stack the deck in your favor today!
INFORMATION ON SIGNING UP
When registering, we require two pictures—a body* and head shot taken within the last six months. *Body shots do not mean nude photos—it means tastefully dressed so we can assess your overall figure (translation: no big, bulky anything.)
REGARDING PHOTOS: We do not want to see what you looked like two years ago! Please tell us when your photos were taken (month and year), or anything you feel we need to know, i.e. “I recently got my hair cut and expect to have new photos taken within the next couple weeks.”
If only sending one photo, make sure it’s at least 3/4 body shot. We don’t accept cropped or group shots, unless it’s all you have for now. You can always send acceptable pictures later, if we request them. Otherwise, we’d like to see two well composed images of you alone. If you must send a temporary group shot, please tell us which person is you (we’re not mind readers.)
If you are approved for membership, we will contact you within ten business days.
IMPORTANT: There is no charge to apply, and we encourage you complete our application. You may be a good match for one of our outstanding clients. We’ll contact you either way and let you know. We take on board one or two women for each seven who apply, so you truly are exceptional if we ask to interview you.
To receive an application, please go to CONTACT ME and email me your headshot and basic information and we will send you the form.
Thank you for your interest in the MatchMaker Enterprises.
Time:8pm, arrive by 730 to get seated
Address:Bam Bou in Rice Village
Parking:Free self parking
Cost: Tickets are $15 or 2 for $20!!
To get your ticket go to CONTACT ME here on my website to get my personal email address & email me your name, number & the amount of tickets you want! I will deliver them!
Seating:Not assigned. The earlier you arrive, the better seat you will get!
What kind of a show? Rated “R”
Features Celebrity Headliner Rodney Bigham you have seen on HBO, Comedy Central, Bet & Showtime @ the Apollo.
I hear so many women complain that there arent any good men out there. Really? So all the good men got in a space ship & said F these bitches? We are OUT! Lol
I kid, but seriously? There arent any good men out here? I am living proof that there are.
Our grandparents and most of our parents – depending on what generation you grew up in really had it right.
Remember when women actually used to REQUIRE the ROCK to sleep with her man?
Now, its “what time do you get off”?
One thing you will learn quick in dealing with The Law of Attraction that I live my life by – that you get what you ARE not what you want.
I grew up in the women’s lib movement of the 90s and was a huge advocate. I was all about not needing a man. . It was when interracial dating became big and now, 1 in 5 relationships are Interracial almost 20 years later. I had bi-racial kids in the 90s when it wasnt as accepted but I believe in equality for all, regardless of race, gender or sexual orientation and the RIGHT to say who you are going to love in life.
I planned my daughter, but I was WOMEN POWER and decided I could do it on my own. Although her father and I lived together in a serious relatioship for a year and did plan to marry, ultimately, it didnt happen. We even planned our daughter. I chose the wrong guy. Because I was 21 and picked based on looks & some personality and he was not ready to be a dad. At that age, that’s immaturity for you. I didnt care, I was PRO WOMEN and would PROVE that I could do it by myself. I was now free to earn my own wages, receive an education and be a BOSS. We have proven that we can do everything a man can do, however there are somethings, if you would allow it, that it feels REALLY GOOD that you dont have to worry about anymore.
What I didnt realize is how HARD it was going to be – to be a single parent. The kids are the ones suffering the most. The stats on children without fathers is so depressing I wont elaborate more than to just say, our children are dying, going to prison, getting addicted to drugs, living a high crime lifestyle, failing classes, and so much more. The point is ladies, we were WRONG. We DO need men especially when it comes to raising our children! Its about family and giving our kids a healthy shot at having a better life and if we care enough about THEM to not bring them into a single parent home if it can be avoided and stop having such a casual attitude in regards to your booty call knocking you up. Or get on birth control. Use condoms. Stop being selfish and just living for the moment. It’s selfish. The right man is worth having standards for. He will adore that about you.
If it’s right, he will bring you peace, love and inspiration to your very soul.
He will protect you and provide for you. He will make sure that you are always treated like a Queen. Just know that if you want to be a REAL QUEEN, you have to be with a REAL KING. Your self emposed title of Queen dont count. That’s like a guy calling himself “Big Daddy” to me when I ask his name. I told one dude “If I put you in my phone as “Big Daddy”, it’s gonna be like “Big Daddy 38″ with his $2000 rims on his avenger talking about he wanted to take care of me and the was Ballin outta control, yet this idiot tells me he will call me tomorrow after he refills his minutes on his cell phone! The clues are there ladies! Lol! You cant be fake and expect to attract someone authentic.
It’s not about all the strife of competing for who is REALLY running the relationship. It’s okay to work hard, hustle, do your thang, but in a relationship, there can only be ONE leader. This doesnt mean you arent equal partners it just means that you ladies stand behind him and trust him to lead the way and fellas, always LEAD because if you are with the RIGHT woman, you know she will always have your back.
But what I found is once we started becoming like men in the workforce, we quickly picked up their sexcapades and then the BOOTY CALL was born and that is why AshleyMadison.com is the leading online site for married couples that want to have affairs. 80% of their clients are women. They made 60Million last yaer and are on track to make 100 Million this year. 80% of their clients are women. Shocking. Wow. We really have become just like men.
But the good news is that there are good men out there. Plenty of them. I meet them all the time. Ive seen couples fall in love and stay in love.
Strip away the car you want him to drive. Strip away the House you think he should have? The salary, the job, the fame, fortune, whatever. Put you and him together on an island. You are NEVER getting off. Would you want to be there? Or would you want to feed him to the sharks?
It cant be about things that can change like looks, money, status, careers or sex.
To begin to find the man of your dreams, you must first start within yourself. You must take a long hard look at all the things you want in a man and then ask yourself, am I offering the same thing back? Or are you trying to have control and be the boss all the time? Maybe you can let him lead. Maybe you have no idea how sexy it is to have a man that cares enough about you to pay attention to the details of things that he think might make you happy. Not only did he get a hotel for you in Manhatten, at a nice hotel none the less, but had the forethought to ask for a room with a view over Central Park. It’ s the fact that he cares enough to go the extra mile. You know why you attracted him? Because you are the kind of chick that will also go the extra mile for him.
You want somone to be faithful. Are you? Or have you kept a string of bad relationships? Does it always seem like you continue to pick the same “type” of guy? You are more than likely the common denominator.
Once you BECOME who you want to MEET. You will.
You can be independent. But men need to be respected, appreciated and needed. The worse thing you can ever say to your man is ” I dont need you”. Online dating has almost ruined marriage completely. The National Divore rate for 2012 is 75%. Crazzzzy! You wanna know why people use a MatchMaker is because the divorce rate in the MatchMaking Industry is less than 7%.
In my Decade as a MatchMaker, Ive carefully analyzed common factors and I’ve identified that the problem isnt just with the MEN ladies, It is with US too!
I really believe that Women’s Lib did create progress for women, but it also reversed the natural way a man and woman connect. He is a hunter Booty calls make it to where she is basically the deer that is laying down in front of the Lion. It wouldnt happen. Dont you know people want what they cant have? That is why Celebrities are famous and VIP section exists. You have to set yourself apart . You gonna be the HO or the HOUSEWIFE? Eventually you have to pick. And act accordingly. Just because you keep your skeletons in the closet doesnt mean they dont exist. You cant run from Karma. What you put out there shall return. Do you really want to be the WIFE or the SIDE CHIC? Are you ALL of the things you DEMAND in your mate? Hmmm?
You dont sleep with a man you actually like until you KNOW FOR SURE how he feels about you. Not what you “think” or “maybe” feel. KNOW, in your HEART, not the BS you lie to yourself about. Stop making excuses why they never call back or only call you when they want to use you and you call them too, but eventually you just wind up with high milege, an STD or so bitter that you stay alone. 2 rules I live by. People do what they want to to do and people do what you let them. Continue to repeat that and live by it and it will cut out a lot of garbage people in your life. People do what they want to do. So if he isnt coming home, calling, texting or being faithful, then that is EXACTLY what he wants to do. He will ONLY do it if you ALLOW him to. You really cant ask a man to respect you when you dont respect yourself enough to make him EARN your body.
Often times, when we meet a man, we are swept up, putting his last name with ours, thinking long term what life would be like if he was the one. Most of the time, he has a single focus. He is thinking about saying the right things to sleep with you. Even if they genuinly like you, sex is always in the forefront of their mind. Most men surveyed said that they judged a girl by how easy it was to get her to talk to him, let alone sleep with him, believing that however she handled him is a pretty good indication of how easily she would do that with another guy. You have to stand out! That means – if you LIKE HIM, make him EARN the lovin. Make him show you love & respect first! You made him stimulate your mind before you allowed him to touch your body.
However I think we need to take it down a notch and find a balance in the God given roles of a man and woman. It’s biblical. He is to lead, she is to be a helpmate. That doesnt mean he can abuse her, or mistreat her, infact, it says quite the oppostite. He is to cherish her and honor her and love her as Christ loved the Church. It’s about he is the Head of the House and a leader. If you disagree, then maybe you dont share the same Christian beliefs. That’s okay. Your perogative to think whatver you do! Im not here to convince you, just share what I know to be true. Lead fellas, come back. We do need you and Im not ashamed to say that It’ okay to let your man lead you. Just have the sense the good Lord gave you and have enough confidence in who you are and what you bring to the table. The bible says, he that findeth a wife, finds a good thing. He is the natural born leader. Trust him to lead. It is so comforting knowing he is a good man and he truly has your back and best interest at heart. Hold out for someone that is WORTH it. It says you are worth more than Rubies. Say that everyday anytime you think about it for 30 days and I promise you, even YOU will start to believe it and you will ATTRACT what you ARE.
Better believe it! Love to all! I love when people fall in love on my watch!
You have to match to the core. You have to be the same “type”. Birds of a feather truly do flock together.
If you dont have what you want in a mate. Check yo self b4 you wreck yo self!
<3 MatchMaker out…….